Wednesday, September 15, 2010

This is one of those days

This is one of those days, when i am tired of the criticism by people who should encourage me. When i am tired of being told that i can't write but people don't care because i am French....
Tired of being told that...Sorry...I thought you were a bad mother but i guess your blog shows the opposite....Some people need a big punch in the face....I am very tired of the insults....Honk, if you know someone who needs a punch in the face!


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46 comments:

Natalie said...

Just wanted to stop by and say congrats on being featured this week on welcome wednesday! I am super excited for you! I added a little link on my blog for you as well!! :)

Cecilotta said...

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised by now, but it never ceases to amaze me what people will say.

The rest of us moderately sane people, however, have fun reading your blog.

Lots of love and a kick in the shins for the meanies ;)

Heidi said...

Hi! Visiting through Welcome Wednesday and I TOTALLY know a couple people who need a punch in the face. Hang in there!

Kim said...

Hi - I'm a new follower. Hope you will follow me back. Thanks!

www.daybydaysavings.blogspot.com

Lorrie said...

I'm sorry people are so rude and unthinking. I enjoy reading your blog - et tu écris beaucoup mieux en anglais que j'écris en français!

Mommy Kerin said...

Stopping by from Welcome Wednesday;
hope to see you stop back by!


Kerin :)
hergoodintentions.blogspot.com

Following you!

Blondie's Journal said...

Hang in there, Frenchy. Things will get better.

xoxo
Jane

Cara said...

Oh man, I had to laugh out loud, because my sister in law and I say that ALL.THE.TIME. When we get frustrated with someone, we always say, "I'm just gonna punch her in the face"... And then we laugh histerically, lol! I'm sorry you feel that way, but just know you are NOT alone!

Cara

allison @ itstoilegood.blogspot.com said...

I'm so sorry people are being rude. Don't really understand the "why" behind it. Hoping your day turns around and a glass of wine finds it way into your hands asap!
Smiles!

Laura @ Just For Love said...

Aww Frenchy : ( I'm sorry you're having a bad day! Well, just know that we (your readers) love you VERY much. I happen to think you look like a wonderful momma too! So there, you stinkin' meanies!

Mary Ann said...

Keep your chin up, Frenchy! They say that hurting people hurt people. Just try to rise above!

It's me said...

Keep smiling darling...it is a happy day also for you !!! love and warmmmmmmmm hugs from me........smile .......:-)))))...laugh .....laugh.....

Marnie said...

They are just jealous of you. Let's face it, most people don't take pride in anything nowdays and you clearly do. The fact that they feel comfortable saying such things shows a lack of proper upbringing.

Hugs,
Marnie

P.S. I always think about tripping mean people ;0)

Alison Marie said...

I am following you from Welcome Wednesday!
www.classycolumbusdesigns.blogspot.com

Lynn said...

I was going to say the same thing as some of your other commenters. I just went through the same thing recently with a LOT of criticism from so called people who cared about me. And then someone "woke" me up to realize that those who criticize are those who are very sad sad people. They may want what you want. They have a hard time finding happiness in their lives and see that YOU are happy. Misery loves company. Don't allow them to have the pleasure of your company. ; D You are a wonderful mother, who cares so much about your children. Clearly. Just be who you are. Always. Because clearly someone wishes they were just like YOU! ; D

Kiki said...

Frenchy!!! HUgs and Hugs and Hugs!!
Please ignore all those meanies! You are AWESOME..Fabulous..and i LOVE everything about you..!! Keep shining...keep creating..keep sharing all your sparkles...you make the universe shine! and i adore you!
hugs
Kiki~

The Answer Is Chocolate said...

Totally honking and totally know a few punch worthy people today! To heck with whoever's telling you that. Just ignore them and focus on the positive and forget the rest. They're cranky people.

Hugs.

Kelly Lund and Kids said...

I love that you are French and very beautiful :) Following you from Welcome Wednesday :) I am now going to Follow you Frenchy :)
PS HONK HONK!! I know a couple people that need a punch in the face ha ha

~kelly from kellylundkids.blogspot.com

Joyful Housewife said...

Sorry you're having a hard time with meanies. I have been there most recently. I'm sure we all have been at some point. Keep positive. Try not to let those people who are probably miserable and unhappy with life drag you down. Keep up the good work! You have a beautiful family and fun blog to read! I hope the rest of your day gets better.
I am a follower by the way from Welcome Wednesday.
Blessings,
Melanie =0)
www.joyfulhousewife.com

High Heeled Life said...

OH Mon Ami!!! You know people often criticise others and their work because deep down they admire them and their accomplishments.

Your writing, blog inspire many ~ just look at all the positive comments you receive!!! Remember the positive .. through the negative out with the trash...

I can only imagine how blessed are the people that get to know you outside of BlogLand ... I know I'm blessed that I have gotten to know you via the clicks on our keyboards... your words and creativity always inspire me!! XO HHL

Amiko said...

Hi, I'm your new follower from WW

Amiko
http://mynameamiko.blogspot.com

afistfullofweeds* said...

I agree with Marnie and Lynn. Jealousy is of the devil, and sorry, but, I would not let him or the jealous ones win!! You are a warm and loving person! You have a beautiful home, Family, Kids, and super cute and sucessful Husband...Of Course they are JEALOUS!!!

Ashley said...

Some people are just too much sometimes. There are certainly times when I want to punch someone in the face, sorry you are having one of those days...keep your head up and keep going! xoxoxox -Ashley

Tania on the Hill said...

I'm with you, I think I do my best and somebody comes and tell that you aren't right, (but you know YOU ARE RIGHT), they think they have the absolute truth of ev erything and they are worst than you.

Hope you come out of the blue quikly, K

xoxo

Julie Harward said...

It never ceases to amaze me that blog land is so very wonderful, filled with so many awesome woman who are so kind and giving...but then there are also a small few who are just plain jackasses! You my dear are the sweetest of the bunch, don't let a few rotten apples get to you...YOU ARE AWESOME! :D

Mel said...

Hi there,
I'm your newest follower from Welcome Wednesday. Sorry to hear that you've been critized. Looking forward to getting to know you.
http://heismybeloved.blogspot.com

Shine said...

Oh pooh! I don't know how or why people want to be so rude....one thing's for sure though, what goes around comes around. Those meanies will get lots of mean-ness back one day....all so sad....You are definitely an inspiration Frenchy...so don't let those nay sayers get to you...We love you dearie!!!

Kelly @ The Startup Wife said...

Yikes, I'm sorry! That sounds so frustrating. It's always amazing to me the rude things people will say--why can't people just be kinder? Sigh.

Love your blog!

Natalie Catherine said...

hey thanks for stopping by my blog girl! it was a fun party to throw for my little sophia...

don't worry about the negative things people say.. you are amazing! sending lots of love your way!

Prairiemaid said...

Sorry, rude people have to open their mouths! They need to get a life and leave yours alone.;)

I always enjoy coming by. I don't always get to post a comment, but I enjoy visiting just the same.

Just keep smiling!

Hugs!

alissa4illustration said...

People can be so rude! Try and just think positively.

I experience this with teaching. There's always one student that just has to be negative. He or she will just get me down all semester. So much so that I want to crack. When this happens, I try and think about all the good students I have. There are always way more good apples then bad ones.

Debbie said...

SAY WHAT!!!!???? People actually criticize YOU??? For heaven sake - what for? Didn't their Mother ever teach them "if you don't have something nice to say - don't say it at all"!!!!! I simply can't imagine being nasty to someone, and certainly would never (ever) in my life leave a negative comment on someone's blog. I think I would be devastated to get one on mine. Girlfriend – don’t you let those meanies get you down… I think you’re the BEST, and so do a LOT of other people!!! Hope you feel my hug all the way to your house!!!

Deanna said...

Frenchy, Sometimes the rude comments by others can make us not want to be like that. We can grow. It can hurt, but we can be a more sensitive and caring person.

I'm recovery from surgery to remove a cancerous thyroid...and though I am way older than you...I have been reviewing my past and thinking over so many regrets.

Life is short this side of heaven.
I will WILL it to look for God's blessings and not spend so much time entangled by those that spoke such rude things. They need to gain some manners. With God's help they will. So it's alright to pray that God bless them...they need the blessing.

I cheer you on.
d

Deanna said...

Frenchy, Sometimes the rude comments by others can make us not want to be like that. We can grow. It can hurt, but we can be a more sensitive and caring person.

I'm recovery from surgery to remove a cancerous thyroid...and though I am way older than you...I have been reviewing my past and thinking over so many regrets.

Life is short this side of heaven.
I will WILL it to look for God's blessings and not spend so much time entangled by those that spoke such rude things. They need to gain some manners. With God's help they will. So it's alright to pray that God bless them...they need the blessing.

I cheer you on.
d

Lisa said...

Frenchy, your blog and your words bring a smile to my face every time I visit you here. You're always upbeat, fun and obviously love your life and your family - you are a joy to know! Oh those poor things are just jealous. Don't take it to heart. Just feel bad for them that they are so sour! :)

Queen of Dreamsz said...

Hi Frenchy,

Oh my goodness...it just still amazes me how heartless and rude people can be.

Just blow off those negative impressions that are being tossed at you. Believe in yourself always and don't let their opinions affect you.

Just SMILE...it baffles and confuses the totally miserable people..LOL

Have a wonderful day,
Stephanie ♥

Dee@FrenchBleuVintage said...

HONNNKKK!!!! I love you. Awesome post - you totally made me smile early in the morning....and that ain't easy to do.

Barb said...

Frenchy
YOU ARE WONDERFUL!!
I have found that people that say rude or nasty things usally are the unhappy and sad and are actually envious of you.
Try not to let it get you down...sometimes the hardest part. I tend to dwell on it and beat myself up then my husband will point out the outlandishness of it all.
Ignore then and have a wonderful day!!
Barb

Le Chateau des fleurs said...

Oh Thank you for your encouragements....It was one of those days.....Love to you all.
Frenchy

Debby said...

What someone is being mean to My Frenchy.
Not funny. You were one of the very first to reach out to me when I started blogging. You take time in your super busy life to stop by and read my blog. Why are people so mean. I know that
Nie
Nie had mean people comment on her blog. So don't feel offended, those people are just insane.
I love you and I know others do......so chin up and go forward. XO

Malena said...

Hi! Hang in there. Those are some of the reasons why I decided to make my blog private - I just couldn't take the random bullshit comments that some people would leave.
I think you're awesome!

Meadowsweet Cottage said...

You are delightful to read---ignore those naysayers and keep on inspiring the rest of us! ((Hugs)) and wishes for good days.

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Incipient Wings said...

Wow, I know a couple that could use a punch!
Sorry you have been treated badly by people who are obviously jealous, envious and dumb.

shake it off and keep showing us
your magic and joy.
hugs!

BonjourRomance said...

Bonjour Frenchy,
Oh I am sorry you have experienced some mean spirted comments. Try to ignore them, that is the best course of action! They are simply not worth getting you down! I am amazed at how well you write - I can relate since I have the opposite problem - I am an American living in France. Happy to report all the French are so sweet and patient with my terrible Fench!!

Hang in there and ignore them stinkers - though they do need a good punch in the face!
Take care,
Mimi

Susan said...

There are assholes in every group!

I can be brutally honest and forthright at times. But I would never be cruel!

Shame on whoever was nasty and hurt you!

We love you Frenchy!! (BTW I would really love to know your real first name :)

Hugs,
Susan

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