Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Reasons to have a baby


This is my Fairy at 12 months

Well, i have been crying each time that i hear that one of my friend is pregnant or had a baby.

It is very hard. I am happy for them. I just feel like i should have one too.

If you have been going through the same. I know how you feel.

It was not really possible for us to have a baby for the past 2 years. Now we can.
I can find more than 10 reasons not to have a Baby but it always come to this...I feel in my guts that i should have one.
A lot of time excuses keeps us from doing something we should be doing....And then it is too late. I always try to follow my guts....I can't go wrong.

Have a great day and follow your guts. :)

24 comments:

Vic said...

What a cutie pattooootie:) I always follow my guts but wonder if getting my tubes tied after my second was the right decision and then I say, yes it was-I can adopt later like I hope to do:) Good Luck Hun! xoxox

Prudence said...

yes, this is how I ended up with 5 kids! I say when your 65, 70, 80, your not going to say, I wish we never had that last one. So go for it!

MrsJenB said...

Best of luck to you in this. I'm yearning to have a baby, but it's never the right time. Now we're caring for my father-in-law and I'm afraid that it will never be an option again, because living with him is intensely draining. My husband refuses to believe that we won't be able to have one "when the time comes", but I have my doubts. So it is very hard for me as well.

It's me said...

I always follow my guts...........but we have no children...........and thats for us the right decision........but we have two dogs...............hugs hugs hugs fom me...........xxxxxxx

Kissed by an Angel said...

How could you not want another baby with the little cutie, Fairy!! Good luck, whatever you decide!!
xxxx

Victoria said...

I have 3 from my ex husband, my current husband never had kids and we have decided we are not going to have any together plus I'm in my 40's now so it would be hard for me to even get preg.

But good luck to you, that's very exciting!!!

Lorrie said...

Wanting to have a child and not being able to is agonizing. My daughter is in that situation and my heart aches for her, and for you.

blessings,
Lorrie

BLISS angels said...

I have two wonderful boys,love them to bits. I would have another baby... if I could have a girl. I know there is a reason he gave me boys. I am queen in this house but I would do it... but I'm 48 this year my days of babies are over but I live in hope for some day in the future to have grandaughters... but not too soon in my future. if the time is right for you to have more children then I wish you another fairy.

Jenny said...

I cry too. I waited for my husband and the Lord had us meet a little later in life than what is usual (me 30 he 33 when we married) and I was only on birth control for 18 months when we started trying (I have two step daughters with him and we allowed for a time of adjustment, just the 4 of us). Then we tried for nearly 2 years (lots of tears), both got checked out (all in working order) and voila, just when I was thinking of extra medical measures the Lord blessed us with our now 3 year old Sophia (I was 34 when I had her). We ache, hope, pray and try for another, but now I have Lupus (which can complicate getting pregnant) and it has been 3 years. I do cry, but in the same breath I thank my God for the two girls I have been blessed to be a part of raising and for the dear one I was able to carry and see come in to this world through me. I pray for your hopes for another one and understand completely.

Debbie said...

What a cute picture! I wish you all the best with what you and your family decide. God bless.

Kelly said...

I can't wait to have children! Good luck :)

iamchasingthirty said...

I know what you mean! There is just an instinct inside of us that tells us go! go! go! It's certainly been tugging at my sleeve for years now. I can't wait.

Janice said...

We are done having kids but I would so LOVE to have a surprise baby.

Le Chateau des fleurs said...

Janice...I would love a surprise baby too LOL. Never happened LOL.
I think sometimes we hope for something to happen...Like a revelation or an accident!!! But i think that if i have the feeling to have a baby it should be enough....Sometimes i just have to "Jump".

Lucy said...

My first baby is 3 months old and I have a stepson. But I love being a mama so much, I know I will have at least one more baby. Hopefully more. I just love babies. Glad to see that other mamas also have baby cravings :)

Caroline @ The Feminist Housewife said...

*hugs*

Deciding to have [more] children is a hard one! Or not being able to have one when you want one! = (

I hope everything works out the way you want it to!

Cielo Azul Jewelry said...

Oh Frenchy.....you will figure it out=0) If you feel like you can handle it, then get that little bun in the oven!

xoxo,
Carol

michelle said...

You have 3 kids right? So you're "thinking" "pondering" another baby? Just trying to get it straight!

Le Chateau des fleurs said...

Michele, yes i have 3 kids and then i want more kids...Although i can think of so many reasons not to have one (being all the time tired, babies are tough etc)....I was not able to have one for the last 2 years and now i can...So yes... I will try this year...

Debby said...

Four is a lovely number. I say go for it. ((((HUGS))))

Meghan said...

Oh how adorable:) I wish you the best, lady! You should definitely follow your heart!

artistamyjo said...

Oh so adorable. If you want a baby then it's time.
Your heart and soul will guide you.
Hugs

Julie said...

Thanks for stopping by for FF. I have two little ones and would love a third but like you say there are so many reasons not too. My husband is the voice of reason right now but I won't say never again yet! I am following you back.

Its So Very Cheri said...

I had a friend who had 5 boys and had lost several. She still had that little desire in her heart for another but thought they were done. She ended up with her last one and she was a girl. After her girl she said she just knew in heart she was totally done. She was never sorry for having that last one but also knew she was done and happy and content and never had a desire for any more.

Cheri

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